The Little Absences

Long-distance relationships suck. I don't think anyone really argues against that point, and if they do, they should be evaluating why they don't prefer being close to their partner. But it isn't just "living far away" that is frustrating, there's so much more to the struggle. And as I think about the little absences in my life having you a continent away, I wonder how I love you so terribly much. 

I miss how you warmed up my feet when they were cold. I miss how you always went to look for my robe when I was at home. I miss having your hand just a reach away in the back of the cab. I miss curling up to watch TV, feeling your laughter against my head. I miss the sparkle in your eye when we go shopping and you want me to try on the most ridiculous dresses. I miss how you cross the street with me. I miss the excitement on your face when you hand me cotton candy. I miss the weight of your head as you slept on my shoulder. 

Technology is wonderful, and it has made our time together a lot easier. But these are all things that technology cannot replace. Because technology can never replace the wonderful feeling of having you right by my side.